Posted by Judith (Judith) on 4/19/2008, 5:35 pm, in reply to "Oh Judith, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. You are always there to help everyone and "
If I were dealing with displaced anger being used as a tool to extort some things given to me, that would be one thing. But I think I'm dealing with someone who has gone totally round the bend. The police noticed that I hadn't had any contact in nearly two years then -- bam! Normal people don't do things like this, nor say the bizarre kinds of thing she did.
I just don't want her fixated on me for any reason which is why I'm going to give her her stuff back (not that I ever wanted it) and have someone tell her it would be in her best interests if she never contacted me again.
I should have cut off contact with her years ago. The only reasons I didn't was because she would show up at the diner and I had to feed the cats, and because I was always concerned about her cats and their care.
I have a feeling that she was waiting to slam me after her court case was over so that I couldn't, in some way, revoke (or whatever the word is) the bail I put up. If that's the case, it indicates her anger has been fomenting for quite a while and that she is cognizant enough to be that aware of my having some power over her as long as the court case was going on.
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