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Posted by Judith on 9/2/2007, 11:26 pm, in reply to "Re: Loss of Spouse" I am so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in comforting arms now. We are all here struggling to get by our losses. It is not easy letting go. Especially in a sudden trajedy. Some cry, some start journals, some set up memorial services, some do crafts, some write poetry. We have Andrea here who is a teenager who lost a very close friend to a tragic car accident, may I suggest you touch base with her. It seems not fair that he should be the only one to be called to Heaven. How come? Is what would go through my mind all the time. Why not someone else? Why him? Its okay to be frustrated, angry, confused, sad, feeling like you don't think you can go on without him nearby. Dear friend, this is such a difficult time. Try to use your schooling as a distraction. Journalling and poetry writing helped me through my very difficult moments. We have some on here who have set up memorial services, and group counselling and even online memorial sites. It has helped them deal with their losses, even though they are still struggling with how they feel, they are helped by knowing that sharing wonderful moments of their loved ones helps to heal. I offer you my shoulder and my prayers, that God has your friend in His arms, and that he sends His angels to help hold you in your time of need. Lovingly,
Dear TB,
Judith
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