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Posted by Debbie/NH on 10/5/2007, 1:45 pm, in reply to "Re: Birthday" I totally agree with you when you said you are finding this year much harder. I felt exactly that way also. I did so much better the first year for some odd reason but last year on our anniversary, his birthday and all our special days I was awful.. I completely alternated between extreme anger at anyone and anything then it would hit me later on and I would lose it crying. I can't even take credit for realizing it my 11 year old at the time is the one who picked up on it. Let's try to plan how you can get through card's on your anniversary. Do you have anything of his that you could wear or carry with you? But for sure I know the 2nd year of everything I found much worse. I was totally a nut case.
Hi Judith,
In fact, Richard's birthday is next month and he has already asked me if we can do something so I can help you get thru Mom
I wear my husband's wedding ring on a chain around my neck close to my heart and that gives me some comfort
When you guys get together to play cards, do you also order out or bring food or anything?
A friend of mine bought a locket that has to hearts on it.. she put their initials on the hearts and has his picture inside which she wears.
The anniversary is the 9th? Ok besides cards, what else are you doing that day?
Let's try to find some safety nets to get you through this day?
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