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Posted by Debbie/NH on 10/8/2007, 7:38 am, in reply to "Re: Birthday" How are you doing today? When is your anniversary so I will be able to remember you in my heart and sent moral support to you all day? It is very hard for parents and people who have not had to deal with a spousal loss to understand the pain and anguish that you feel. Unfortunately for my sister she understood all to well what it felt like since my loving brother-in-law had passed five years before.
Hi Judith,
I felt like my very heart and soul were ripped right from my own body and that everything inside of me was left so open to all the elements.
She kept telling me that the "ride" through the worst of it is awful and that you need to help make plans to get through those "special" days.
But even as you know the support from here and her is wonderful you still have to fact those times as best as you can.
I find the more I hear people say his name in front of me the better I actually feel.
To hear his name is music to my ears and heart.
I am hear for you too in whatever support I can give and to anyone who needs to know yes it's awful and you will have good and as awful as you can imagine days.
I'll be hoping and looking forward to hearing back from you
Stay Strong and know Roy is right there watching you and willing you to get thru this with him.
Love
Debbie
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