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Posted by Connie on 10/30/2007, 12:21 pm, in reply to "Re: Please tell me it gets better"
Thank you Debby for writing back to me. Yes It is the girls mother who let their Dad die. The Dr. at the hospital that terrible Sunday Morning,asked me why he didn't get any help early on that day He said he died from multiple seisures. In fact he had seisures for 4HOURS, and she couldn't stand the noise he was making and so she went out to the living room and shut the bedroom door behind her,instead of trying to help him she practically killed him. I will never forgive her for that one day. She found a new boyfriend in 2 mos. after my son's death. She even was pregnant that same year. Roger died in Jan.1998 and she gave birth to the last girl in Aug and at the first Christmas without our son,she informed us she was preganat again and the next July she had her boyfriens baby. So now she has 2 boys by him and getting money for the girls off their Father's Social Security. She spends most of the money on Him and the boys. The Oldest girl is 12 now and she sure knows what is going on at home. She doesn't want to live with her mother now,she wants to come here and live with us.
Her Mother's boyfriend doesn't have a full time job and doesn't need one because she gets enough money to take care of him and his boys.
As with your question about getting along with her I don't. I don't go anywhere now because I don't want to see her. She won't talk to the girls about their father and now makes the 2 younger ones calls her boyfreind daddy. The girls ages are 12, 11 and 9. She did take the girls away from us once and she keeps threating to do it again. If Roger knew what she was doing he would rool over in his grave because he knew how bad we wanted grandchildren.
Roger had seisures when he was little and got over them when he was 10. In Oct.1997 he had one and again in Nov. and the night of Jan. 18,1998 he needed help in the worst way and he didn't get it. I carry a heavy burden in my heart because I'm his mother his protector and I let him down in a very very bad way. Even though it's been almost 10 years I still can't handle his being gone.
As far as faith goes,I've even giving up on that. So you can see I don't have much of a life. My family doesn't bother with me to much, so it is so nice to finally have someone to lean on and talk to with the open mind you have. My family tells me to stop feeling sorry for myself and get a life and it's easier said than done.
I'm also unable to work due to Spine problems so I'm on disability. I have Chronic Pain and depression.
I'm so sorry to hear about all of your relatives dying. Your young son has gone through a devistating 12 years of his short life. I'm wondering if you have another man in your life and it you would make your son call him Daddy? I'm sure you wouldn't. Well I've talked your afternoon away.But Please enter my email address to yours so we can keep in touch with each other.My email is cnason@localnet.com
Looking forwaqrd to hearing from you again.
Again Thank-You for your time I deeply appreciate your time and caring.
Connie from Maine.
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