
Posted by Connie on 11/16/2007, 8:38 pm, in reply to "Re: Very Lonely"
I'm disabled so there is little chance of helping others when you can't help yourself. I wish I could change places with both of my children so they could have seen what the future held for them. My Son was so excited about becoming a father, he has 3 girls that he would have done anything for them. All the time he was growing up he just kept saying I'll be so HAPPY when I become a Daddy, He was but for such a short time. His life was snuffed out in 4 hrs. He had seizures and died a terrible death.
When he was little he had seizures and then they stopped with meds. Then in Oct. 1997 he had another seizure while at work. They called the ambulance and he was fine. Then in Jan. 1998 he started having seizures again, instead of his wife calling us or the ambulance,she left the bedroom where he was and shut the door so she couldn't hear him and let him lay there on his back for 4 hrs. and never even tried to help him, she has a boyfriend and has had him since May 1998 (she didn't waste any time getting preganant after the last girl was born),she had another baby the next year.) His girls were only 3 yrs. old and the 2nd one was 15 months old and the last one he never lived long enough to see her. He died 7 mos. before she was born. And now we even wonder if the last one was even his. I Hope and Pray she is but we'll never know, we will always consider her our grand daughter and Love her unconditionaly. The only reason I say this is because she told the oldest girl that she was going to leave him anyway, after his death. So I think she used that time to get rid of him.
Well now you know all the details of his death and the thoughts that we have to live with every day. Thank you for thinking of me.
Connie
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