
Posted by Debbie/NH on 12/12/2007, 3:49 pm, in reply to "I lost my sister"
Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss. The road ahead will be long and hard so be kind to yourself. I am in the 2nd year of grief after having lost my husband of 20 years.
You need to allow yourself the pain to grieve and do not let anyone tell you you should be over it. Obviously they have never dealt with a painful loss(lucky them at this point).
I found prayer and a grief journal to be my steadfast companions after the first 6 weeks.
I would write letters and notes to him. I hope this will help you too.
Feel free to write back and tell me about your wonderful sister.
I know I have my sister and she is a best friend and helped me deal with the sudden loss of my husband.
debbie
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