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Posted by Debbie/NH on 1/30/2008, 10:13 am, in reply to "husband doyle"
Char, On this site you will find so many wonderful friends. First off I would like to extend my sympathy of the loss of your wonderful husband. I am so sorry that you are now a member of this club of grief. But we all do make each other strong and give each other that extra lift up when it hurts so bad.
My husband passed away in 2005 and today although the horrible pain of grief has passed I still am missing him and loving him every day. He too was my best friend and soul mate. He loved me in spite of my faults and shortcomings. He was a one in a million. It took me a very long time to realize that although he has gone home to God to wait for me that I was indeed a very lucky woman to have had him love me. So many times I have had friends divorce or hate their mates and I never had to worry about that. We had 18 years together and they were awesome. Somthing that God picked just for him and me. How lucky I was to have found what some people have to search their whole lives to find and some never find.
Yes you will hurt, cry and feel like your own very heart was cut out of you without benefit of anesthesia. And people will say stupid things to you but remember those are the ones who have yet to suffer a loss so powerful that it knocks them on their butts. Forgive their innocence they have no idea what you are going through.
Please tell us about your wonderful husband I would live to hear all about him.
My husband loved football. In fact we are a Patriots family and of course I will be rooting them on on SuperBowl Sunday. I learned to love them like he did and it made us stronger. How sad that some people fight their mates love of sports when they could have shared some great dates with them. but how lucky were we all to have had the man of our dreams.
Peace to you and I'll hope to hear back from you
Debbie
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