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Posted by andrea on 3/21/2008, 12:05 am, in reply to "Re: death of my boyfriend"
i'm numb myself so i understand about the coming and going well i never said to move on. I think caring for someone as much as we do, you can never truely move on you can only get through it. That's what i plan on doing, get through it not move on. My boyfriend will always be in my heart and blah blah blah. I know I never really want to hear it but everyone keeps telling me. I already know that. The way to start to get through it would be start from your child and get through it starting there. Put your child first and maybe you both could possibly cope with it together and once again you won't move on but be able to deal with it..your child seems young but nevertheless no matter what you can be each others support. Also, the crying never stops. It's fairly fresh from me and once a day i'm balling and i try to train my mind at that point but it doesn't help,all that happens is i just stop crying...so maybe it helps a little. Anyhow it's worth a try and maybe you and your child can be support for one another. From an outsiders point of view it's worth a try. You gotta find your therapy to go through this. I have found mine but everyone is different.
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