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Posted by Debbie on 4/29/2008, 7:57 am, in reply to "Hi Debbie"
I had planned on sending you a message this morning wondering how you did during the tournament and how you were feeling after.
The emotional ups and downs are to be expected. I never noticed them but my 12 year old son has. He pointed out to me that I get wound up before our anniversary, his birthday or the annual mass I have said for my husband and the next few days I am completely wiped out.
And he is right I have started noticing that alot.
I think I told you that a month ago I lost a very dear friend from gastric by pass surgery. She was such a great person and there are days when I think she's lucky that she gets to see Richard then I realize she her husband doesn't get to see her. They were such a wonderful couple and now they have to deal with this tremendous loss. Their son and mine are very good friends and the families have done many day trips together. I am trying to work up the courage to call her husband to see if I can take their son with us on the saturday of Memorial Day weekend to Canobie Lake Park(not sure if you remeber this place but it's in Salem NH). It's awful but I feel weird calling him now that are dynamics have changed and I shouldn't feel that way. He's hurting and it's so new and painful for him.
Were you able to meet your expectations on fund raising from the card tournament?
You are such a wonderful person and never ever feel that you can't babble to me. That's what we are all here for to lean on each other for support during our trying times.
Love
Debbie
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