
Posted by Judith on 5/3/2008, 4:15 am, in reply to "it's so hard"
Dear Andrea,
The pain doesn't go away, it just changes so that we can deal with it better. The living part is very hard to do when you try doing it without the one you love, but then, you remember what you loved about your sweetheart and you take him with you wherever you go.
So, then you are not alone anymore, and once in a while, you can hear him whisper little secrets to you, and you smile. Or a song comes on the radio that just makes you think of the times you shared with him, or you fall asleep and he is there in your dreams...
It gets a little easier, every day, but it still hurts.
My arms stretched out to hold you, Andrea, for you to cry on my shoulder and just to feel supported.
I send you my prayers that you find peace and that your hurt subsides a little more every day.
Lovingly,
Judith
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