
Posted by andrea on 5/9/2008, 5:51 pm, in reply to "feels of guilt for loving someone else after losing a spouse"
do not feel guilty. The love that the two of you shared with your spouses that have passed is completely different and can truely never take the others place but to learn to love again is something that we truely all need to do and something that god blessed us with. In heaven there are no hard feelings. There is no pain or anger. It's love and understanding and happiness..paradise!..We are humans so we have those emotions and can't really comprehend paradise but if you believe in god and try really hard you will see that it's ok to love another it's ok to find someone to fill our hearts that have been taken from us when our spouse dies. they would rather have you happy and in love then angry and depressed. God bless and just pray and you'll know what to do!=)
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