
Posted by Debbie/NH
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on 9/11/2008, 4:13 pm, in reply to "Have lost my dearest love"
I am so sorry that you are going to have to go through this painful experience. I too lost my dear husband 3 years ago and remember only too well how much my heart ached and I felt like I had this huge gaping hole inside of my body.
This will be a very difficult time for you and I hope you had some good friends and family to help you thru.
No matter what any says to you , it will take longer than a year to move past the agony and pain. Be good to yourself. I spent a lot of time praying for my Richard and feeling so our of sorts.
I am doing better now but still miss that man so much. He was everything to me and always will be.
YOu will find many friends here who have already gone through some of the most emotional highs and lows that you can imagine.
I don't know if you would be interested at some point but I did start a grief journal and wrote letters to him, told about things going on in my life and our son's live.
My arms are wrapped around you and I offer you my heartfelt sympathy on your loss. Please feel free to write to me if you want I will listen and do my best to offer you my ears to listen while you grieve.
Big Huge Hugs to you Sylvia!
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