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Posted by robin
on 3/1/2009, 3:24 am
My boyfriend has colon cancer, it is now at stage 4 ad the hospice is now involved. We have lost our home and have put all our belongings in a storage locker. For the last several months all we do is argue. He has become very mean at times and constantly saying hurtful things to me. I try to understand and keep my mouth shut but every oncce awhile I say stuff I wish i had not said. There are times when i get so mad at him and then there are times when i feel so sorry for him. Right now we are traveling between my daughters house and his moms house. It is extremely difficult because we have no bedrm and no private place to sleep. I had to quit my job to take care of him, and we are broke. I am worn out by everything! the move,, the doctors, the hospice people, his so called friends, just everything. The doctor says he has months. When we fight he brings things up from the past or he accuses me of stuff i didnot do, and i get so angry and fustrated. i have no one to really talk too about all this. is there someone who knows where i can go to get some support or find a support group on the peninsula? Any helpful advice from anyone i would aperciate it. thank-you
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