Angel On My Shoulder: Re: Devastated by husband's death

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Re: Devastated by husband's death

Posted by mary on 4/27/2009, 11:55 pm, in reply to "Devastated by husband's death"

I am so sorry for your loss. You are not to blame. My husbands death was almost 1 yr ago. Not from and overdose (although he tried) but from cancer. If there is anything I could say from my experience, remember that he loved you and all the times you loved him. You can't stop feeling guilty., but you could not have changed it. We are each are own person in our own body in the end. We choose. We also make each other feel guilty. Please try and forgive yourself for not seeing something that at the time was too hard to see. Remember how much you loved each other and what you felt like when you remember that give and take of love. I keep trying to remind myself of all our love and why we love each other. Your pain is so new and so is your guilt. take care.

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