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Posted by just some guy first, people tend to be erratic. they may want something, and two minutes later may want the opposite thing. we change our minds all the time, that's why we say what we don't mean...we may have meant it at the time, but later, we can't understand why we though that was the way to go, and then even later, we go back to the orignal thought, and back again. maybe that explains why it sometimes seems he wants to be back with you, but other times he doesn't. he may actually be going back and fourth. i don't know if that helps, if that makes any sense at all... however, i think you have to rule out the possibility of getting back with him. pining makes us weak. we have to be strong to get over our ex's. this guy has completely disrespected you when he saw someone else on the break and lied to you about it. also, he ignored you at school too...that's nothing but disrespect. you've made efforts for a year without consquence. you have to fall out of love with him, because he's fallen out of love with you: we don't treat the one we love the way he has treated you. you're in college, best years of your life...plus, tons of the opposite sex everywhere...enjoy it. love yourself and your life and then i think you'll see how you really feel about him.
on 10/14/2006, 2:35 pm, in reply to "cant get over it HELP!"
There are a few things that come to mind when reading your story. First, it sucks, I totally know how you feel...I've been there...toherwise, what would i be doing here.
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