Posted by motherdearest on 9/5/2009, 8:16 am, in reply to "Re: mother and mil"
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Ha ha.... that is funny...ok... I like that idea too.... I admit it... I need a vacation!!!!!!!! --Previous Message-- : Oh, motherdearest, I feel for you! I'm : thinking a $600 donation from each of us, to : YOU, so you can get away for a little : vacation! : : --Previous Message-- : Does anyone want to put $2 in the put and : pick : a date that they think that I will be : shipped to the padded room.... since my mil : and mother are both here while my husband is : cranky from pain and pain meds and my son is : in trouble for a prank and my 7 yr old has : become a hateful little witch to everyone : cuz she is worried about her daddy and my : baby boy won't let me out of his sight : because the month at my mom's makes him : think that I am leaving him... and my 16yr : old daughter's best friend is staying for a : week because her parents are divorcing and : her lil sis is getting out of rehab... and : there are 25 teenage boys on my porch cuz my : son is grounded to it..... and on and on and : on.... $2 .... in the pot... you could : win... especially if you pick a date in the : next week... cuz I think that is all I can : last...lol : : :

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Posted by motherdearest on 9/5/2009, 8:18 am, in reply to "Re: mother and mil"
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Thanks for the inspiring words. I do think sticking together is the key. The only problem is my husband doesn't understand that mentality cuz of the kind of family he is from. I think he is pushing the kids away .... maybe because of the incredible pain he is having or maybe to start preparing them to lose him.... whatever it is... it is killing me. I wish I could make it better for all of them...but what helps him...hurts them and visa versa.... ahhhhhHHHHHH! I just felt like screaming! --Previous Message-- : Ahhh you poor woman. My mother coming just : for the afternoon causes a panic attack for : me lol. I think you can hold out at least 2 : weeks. I know its hard with kids going : through a tough time, and as parent dealing : with the outcomes. They dont always realize : that their behavior effects other people. : Ive realized that being a mother is a pretty : thankless job. However, I figure that some : day in the distant future my son will thank : me(hes 7). All kids have differnt ways of : coping with negative situations some get : emotional and some get angry. Just know : that the best way to get through any : situation is to stick together as a family. : And always remeber your a strong woman, : youll weather this storm and when it passes : you will be a stronger better person. : : W/Love : Sonya : : --Previous Message-- : Does anyone want to put $2 in the put and : pick : a date that they think that I will be : shipped to the padded room.... since my mil : and mother are both here while my husband is : cranky from pain and pain meds and my son is : in trouble for a prank and my 7 yr old has : become a hateful little witch to everyone : cuz she is worried about her daddy and my : baby boy won't let me out of his sight : because the month at my mom's makes him : think that I am leaving him... and my 16yr : old daughter's best friend is staying for a : week because her parents are divorcing and : her lil sis is getting out of rehab... and : there are 25 teenage boys on my porch cuz my : son is grounded to it..... and on and on and : on.... $2 .... in the pot... you could : win... especially if you pick a date in the : next week... cuz I think that is all I can : last...lol : : :

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