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Posted by TN on 12/30/2005, 2:29 pm, in reply to "My ex moved on and I feel very sad." As harsh as this may seem, you really didn't have a "relationship" with this person. You both were using the other to get some of your needs met, but if there had been any genuine love between you two, then what you had would have never been sufficient- real love demands more than that and willing gives more than that. Take care, and make yourself whole, so that when the right one comes along, you will be ready!!
Whes- Move on, you really deserve better.
What you are missing is the feeling that you have someone to turn to and depend on. People get addicted to others. Right now you have to recover from that addiction. You need someone who can meet all your needs, and you theirs. I bet if you are really honest, they weren't being met in this situation. Expect to go through a painful withdrawal, but once you are past that - meaning no contact with this person, and no, you are not in a position to be their friend, or have any contact with them for any reason, then you will be free to truly move on and find real love.
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