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Posted by Bindra on 12/4/2004, 7:22 pm
Hello everyone,
I corresponded on this message board years ago (2yrs). Well, I thought things had gotten much better with my hubby and I...WRONG! After a tid-bit of an argument 2 months ago he walked out and I haven't heard or seen him since. We have been together for 12 years, married for almost five if we had made it unti 4/05. I am devastated. I did get a message from him two weeks ago. His sis called and said he had bought five concert tickets and told her to ask me if I wanted to go. I declined after much thought. Here I am heartbroken, stuck will all the bills of the household I have been trying to maintain for us for years and after he has been gone two months dealing drugs all he has for me is a funky $50 concert ticket. I do not approve of his lifestyle and that is one of the reasons we were not getting along. I am a recovering person (7 years) and worked very hard to stay sober, finish school (college), raise a daugter who is now in college, and hold a marriage together. I am emotionally and physically drained and very heartbroken. How could he do this to me after all we have been through. They told me when I came into recovery that when I got better, everything around me would get better...everything has except my relationship with my husband. He has always been a thug who liked the fast life and fast women, but I had sooo much hope that he would change. He did for very brief periods, but now he's back at it in full swing. What should I do?
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