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Posted by mailgirl on 2/1/2005, 3:31 am, in reply to "my partner is not the same person anymore!"
My boyfriend changed dramatically too. He wasn't a bad person, but he "rededicated" his life to God and began treating me like I was nothing. His influence was his mother, a preacher, someone he really hadn't been in touch with for several years and with my encouragement got close to. I discovered some suspect transactions with finances and she turned him against me. I thought I had found my soulmate, my last relationship. Someone I loved very much. Everyone tells me to go on but it's so hard. He left me out in the cold and on his quest for a Christian life has basically erased me from his life. We had a struggling business together that I invested EVERYTHING I had in and he has locked me out of both the house and the company. I go from anger to depression and everthing in between. I know if he were the same fun loving person I knew before his mother came along, I'd do anything to be with him again but right now he treates me as if he'd just asoon spit on me and throw me in the gutter as give me a kind word. I come from a stable, close knit family, and have been very successful in my professional life, I hate looking/sounding pathetic. I'm sorry, I haven't been much help, just wanted you to know you're not alone, I don't know what to do either, I'm afraid that I'll get to a point where I'm ok and he'll be back to the old him wating to get back together. I couldn't stand this heartache again. I'm not sure if it is better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all. Best Wishes
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