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Posted by Karen on 11/10/2005, 8:55 pm
Hi...I've been in a relationship with what I thought was a great guy. In a lot of ways I believe he is good, but I learned of one weird thing that has led to the end of what I thought was the perfect relationship. I left because I refused to play second fiddle to his ex's. I am not talking about his ex wives...I'm talking about his ex mother and father in law! He has and always will put them before any woman. I have never heard of such a thing in my life. Believe me, I am totally brokenhearted. I have cried and will cry more I'm sure. But also there is this feeling of wonder and amazement that I find somewhat humerous, scary and bizzare all at the same time. A part of me is thanking my lucky stars that I am getting out now. I have lost pretty much everything in the process, like a good job and a place to live..but I will recover. I hope in the end I come out better. There has to be a lesson in this somewhere. It's just too weird not to be. Am I just crazy, or is there a woman out there that would really want to be lower in priority than her ex in laws? I can understand having a good relationship with them, but excluding everyone else who loves you? It's not just me. When he is in their grips as he is now, he blows off everyone else in his life...even his own family. And then something will happen and he will fall out of grace with them, but his dad says he always goes back for more. So, what does everyone think of that one? It's a new one on me.
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