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Posted by anthony
on 5/11/2005, 1:25 pm, in reply to "Re: Genesis"
GR:
Thank You for writing back. Your stories about the development of the fantasy ring true. I think it develops early on. It did for me. It seems a combination of early experiences (like the one you mentioned) and an emotional tendency in that direction (as you mentioned). You're experience with this is so vast . I dreamed all my life for one such as Yourself to come along and understand, be so well equipped with the kind of feet I like, and to want to do it, to enjoy it, to revel in the power and the play of it. Thank You so much for that. I am inclined to take a psychological approach to understanding this, but that's just me. Perhaps it's more in the direction of early, impressive and formative experiences. Who really knows. Anyway, Dr. Bader's book is psychoanalytically founded and was a very good look at this most interesting area of human life. I really enjoyed Your question about Bader's fantasies. My assumption is that what we do, and what we are interested in is, to a great degree, autobiographical. So, my guess is the he has sexual fantasies that he tried to make meaning of and the next thing you know . . . he's got a job in it. Make's you wonder about what we all choose in out lives and why (I'm thinking protologists here not to mention undertakers, etc.) 'Nuff about that. let me, one more time, humbley grovel in gratitude for the site You provide us and for Your clear intelligence and spirit of fun and play which you bring to, what has been, and can be a dark and forboding domain for many of us who've grown up with this in our bodies and minds. Your hideously huge fan and devotee, anthony
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