Posted by Rick on 9/27/2006, 12:46 am, in reply to "Rick, I just read your message, and I'd like to offer" Thanks for responding. If you don't mind elaborating a little, I would like to know a few things. Did it bother your husband initially but he just told you it didn't matter to make you feel better at the time, or did it start to bother him later on in the process? At this point I honestly don't feel any differently about my love than I did before. I sometimes fear that she will think I am minimizing what she is going through because I continue to tell her I think she is just as attractive and sexy now as she was before the surgery. I am also careful to point out that I regret that she had to go through this emotionally and physically painful ordeal. Please read the posts right above yours. I think most readers never responded because they think I am creepy talking about kissing her shoulders while she was still in the hospital post op. I was writing what happened and my point was to share the intimate nature of our relationship. She was very appreciative that I would kiss her arm or shoulder, or hold her hand and talk when she was awake. We discussed this several times and she has thanked me since for being so sweet and making her feel loved and attractive. I cannot imagine that my love for her or my attraction to her would ever change. How are you doing now? Have you been cancer free since your last treatments? I hope you are doing well and wish you continued good health. Is your husband normally a communicative guy? I am very open about how I feel and will share my thoughts and feelings. I know some guys are not very willing to do that and I feel that would make things harder to get through. If you don't mind answering I would love to hear your perspective. Thanks
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