Posted by Rick on 10/27/2006, 2:12 pm, in reply to "My wife has passed away" So sorry to hear about your wife. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I noticed in your earlier post that you mentioned being scared at the thought of raising the kids without your wife. You stated you "weren't very good at that". Many kind folks have written in with great ideas and I hope those help. I had one additional thought I felt may be helpful. I want to encourage you to pursue learning opportunities to help you with the things that worry you the most about single parenthood. I had a friend whose wife passed away several years ago. He was a rough laborer who didn't do domestic things AT ALL. He couldn't cook, didn't know how to have discussions with the kids, etc. He was contacted by the social services within the community and they offered cooking classes and sensitivity classes specifically for this situation. He was a changed man and did a great job with the kids after working with the trainers to learn and gain perspective. I don't know what your concerns are or what areas you need help with but I would inquire with churches, YMCA, social services, and even child welfare agencies to see if there are opportunities in your area to get help with the areas you would like to learn more about. Nothing can take away your grief at a time like this however there are things to help with your concerns for your ability to be the parent you want to be. I wish you and your kids peace and tranquility. That may seem an impossible wish to fulfill right now, but it will come. Take one day at a time. Rick
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