Posted by Thomas on 6/4/2007, 3:27 pm, in reply to "Dear Thomas.................................................." I'm only really like that when I am alone; as soon as I come home and see her, and the kids, I am acting much better. (Of course, sleepless nights do not help either, true.) I plan on visiting with someone here at work, and/or someone in the BC support group at her treatment center. I don't want her to be the cheerleader, since, you are right, she has a lot to think about. So what I need to do is focus on what can help me smile, help me help her, and help me show positive thoughts and emotions. No, I don't want to "hide" anything and keep any secrets about fears and whatnot, but you are right, I should do stuff that keeps my mind from thinking about those things. Or really that keeps my mind from _worrying_ about those things.
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Thanks! I do feel better after writing all of that out, I had never done it before.
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