Posted by Jeff on 4/16/2008, 8:50 am, in reply to "Re: His anger"
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I'll keep this short, because I only have a minute - but I just wanted to respond because it sounds like you really need someone to talk to.
IF your marriage is worth saving, then you could try some counseling (together). But from the way you describe the situation, it sounds like he has no interest in saving it. If that's the case, then I'm sorry to say that it may be time to move on. Do you still love him? If you do, then try your best, but realize that you can't save a marriage on your own - it takes two to make it work, and it's not a failure on your part if it doesn't. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, and life is too short to be trapped in a bad marriage. If it's over, then use this as an opportunity to start your life over again and get what YOU want out of it. Be strong, and get your life back. It's yours, and you only get one, so live it for all it's worth.
Oh, and if he sold all of your belongings and used the money to buy land, then you are still entitled to half of it (even if it's all in his name). Find yourself a good lawyer, get what's legally yours, and start your new life. You are still young, and you have been given a second chance. Take it.
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