Posted by Tina S. on 8/20/2009, 5:03 pm, in reply to "Re: Need a Toxology Report"
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Ruby, I have no idea who you are, but I am worried about you. My boyfriend and I love this site and the wisdom and suport we get. I post, he lurks! He texted me yesterday morning regarding your first post and I am the one who alerted everyone else to read what you are going thru.
Ruby, I have been in the most abusive relationship before. It is very difficult to admit you need help, let alone ask for it. What your husband is doing is criminal. You say you will have a tox screen if need be. NEED BE NOW, honey. Sorry to shout. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to prove.
I speak from hard knock experience. What would be worse, your kids knowing that their father hurt their mother or knowing that their father killed their mother. I truly, truly do not mean to be harsh but you cannot heal yourself if you do not help yourself. There are shelters, the American Cancer society can help, I bet. When i go to the doctor, they always ask if I am safe at home....tell them you are not!
What you are goung through is the ultimate epitome of awful. Denial is a river in Egypt (or Wherever; > )). He is not ging to change, you admit that he is not capapble. This is your life, sweetie. Your kids need a mother.
There is lots of love and support here, but you gotta help yourself, too. Please keep posting and tell us how you are and what is going on.
If you don't mind sharing, what is your status right now with the cancer?
Lots of women love here...Get away from that man and keep yourself and your children safe.
Hugs and love,
Tina S.
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