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My mother in law started accusing her son and grandson of having an affair with a teenager around the corner. Sometimes she wouldn't let them in her house. DON'T give in! She also accuses me every time she sees me of stealing from her purse. I choose to not be around her and could care less what anyone thinks. She caused me to be alone most of Christmas, but I didn't have to listen to her crap! She's a 90 year old Italian woman who has never been happy a day in her life!
So sorry you are having to go through this in addition to everything else, but try to put it aside and just love your wife. Let us know how she is doing!