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Chris, the others have posted so well, and I don't want to repeat their advice, but I'm glad you found this site, it has been a Godsend for me, and you should feel free to post anytime you need some support, or just feel a need to vent. You are definitely being remembered in my prayers.
The biggest additional advice I will give you, is that while you will want to give all your energy to your wife, and help her fight the breast cancer beast, please remember to take care of yourself as well. It's not selfish. You have to keep yourself healthy and strong in order to be strong enough to take care of her. wife. And I must add that she is blessed to have a husband who loves her so.