Posted by Robby on September 26, 2009, 17:02:37, in reply to "Re: questions?????"
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no prob laura. I just know how it was when my parents hassled me. Its not THAT bad of a habit. But then again, your daughter is 9 years old so...so yeah, id just ask, she will probably say no, but if she is truly smoking behind your back, its pretty easy to catch her someday. She will get more daring of where she smokes, and you will run into her eventually while shes smoking. Hope things work out great. keep me updated...
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: well, im 18, soon 19,
: and
: i can tell i definitely
: didnt like that my mom
: and step father found
: out i smoked when i was
: like 13 or 14. I got
: grounded from EVERYTHING
: and i didnt want to
: smoke every again since
: my mom and step dad were
: anti smokers (although
: my mom smokes). It was
: really rough i tell ya
: that. But inside, i
: truly wanted to be a
: smoker, i dont know why,
: i just did. so obviously
: parents didnt stop me. i
: just did it behine their
: back outside or
: something. My advice is
: do u care if she smokes?
: thats the first thing
: that matters. If you
: dont care, then no need
: to search her room, but
: if you dont want her to
: smoke, still dont search
: her room. JUST asl. its
: so much better than
: going through HER stuff.
: thats not cool. i mean 9
: is an early age to
: start, but still, its
: rude of the parents to
: search rooms looking for
: cigs to get their kids
: in trouble...thats my
: two sense...
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: im a 29 yo mother of a 9
: yo daughter. im also a
: smoker i started smoking
: when i was 18. my
: question is how can i
: tell if my daughter is
: smoking my bf thinks she
: is.i have noticed amber
: has been watching me
: smoke lately and she has
: asked me how old i was
: when i started and hoe i
: got smoke to come out of
: my nose. my bf say i
: should search her room.
: any and all comment
: would be appreiciated.
: thx laura
:
:thx for your comments
: robby. i totally agree
: with you about room
: searches. if i come out
: and ask her if shes
: smoking and she says no
: i can accept that but if
: she say yes then thats a
: horse of a different
: color. im not going to
: ask her until ive
: formulated an answer.
: and again thx for your
: comments: laura
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