Posted by Bilbo on October 22, 2009, 22:08:38, in reply to "Re: smoking"
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So it will tell after this weekend if smoking is something i will want to do all the time or it is just a phase im going through.
Jenny apologies if I was a little short in my previous post, (probably needed a cig, lol). But that sounds like an OK plan - you'll have been smoking less than a fortnight by the time next weekend is up, at that point there's a reasonable chance, with a little bit of luck that you won't yet be so addicted that it's impossible to decide to stop.
Just sit down when you get back and think about whether you wish to continue, respect that you need to make a choice to either stop, or become a long term addicted smoker, choose and act accordingly. It's still be much safer to make the decision today, but if you are determined to experiment without making the decision yet, hopefully after the weekend will still be soon enough, if you do make a firm decision then.
I can't and won't tell you which way you should decide, and anyone who tells you that they can doesn't have your best interests in mind.
Being a smoker is a massive trade-off, you get pleasure, relaxation, comfort and happiness from it, but the cost is addiction, massive expense, weakened lungs, and probably eventual poor health. Only you can decide if making that trade is something that's right for you - but if you don't make a conscious decision, and keep on smoking planning for it to only be short term, the cravings will creep up on you, and the nicotine addiction will make the decision for you.
--Previous Message--
: hi Sue,
: I smoke marlb Lights.And
: yes my 2 best friends
: know they are the ones
: that i smoke with, we
: usally smoke on the way
: home from practice this
: weekend we are going to
: stay with Megan sister
: at her collegefor the
: weekend so that will be
: the real test to see how
: smoking goes all
: weekend.Her sister knows
: she snokes so it should
: no problem to smoke all
: we want.So it will tell
: after this weekend if
: smoking is something i
: will want to do all the
: time or it is just a
: phase im going through..
:
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Jenny
: What Kind Of Cigarettes
: are you Smoking?Are You
: Inhaling Yet? Do Any Of
: your friends know you
: smoke?
: When You Start Inhaling
: You Will Get Addicted
: Really Fast & Have
: To Smoke.
: Try To Keep It To 2-3
: Per Day & Perhaps
: you might not get
: addicted.
: If You Take Larger Puffs
: & Inhale Real Deep
: you will get addicted.
: Take Care
:
: Sue
:
: --Previous Message--
: Tonight i was able to
: smoke 2 more on the way
: home from practice.Im
: really starting to
: injoysmoking and really
: look forward to the ride
: home.My parents were not
: home yet when i got home
: so i was able to get a
: shower before they got
: home an could smell it
: on me.I usally were alot
: of perfume and always
: chewing gum so they wont
: think any thing about
: it.But i think it still
: something new an fun
: that after a little
: while i will just quit.
:
: ..Jenny..
:
: --Previous Message--
: Well i desided that im
: going to keep smoking
: for now.After i inhaled
: thats when i desided
: that i really liked
: it(still not real good
: at it)but it is getting
: better .After pratice
: tonight on our way home
: we had 2 each so now for
: the questions
:
: 1 what is a good brand
: to start with.
:
: 2 what is the best way
: to hide the smell
:
: 3 and is the an easy way
: to come out to parents
:
: ... Jenny...
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