Posted by dennis on November 1, 2009, 10:01:38, in reply to "smoking"
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no doubt you are at a crossroads now. you have found out how pleasant smoking can be and how nice it is when you are together with smoking friends. i know you like the social aspects of smoking as well as the stress relief it gives. i'm sure you have had fun learning, and perhaps even getting a few compliments on you style too. if you have been smokng at parties where there are girls and guys, i'd be supprized if you haven't turned a few heads too. these are the plus sides of smoking that are very nice and are probably some of the reasons you would love to continue. its really up to you now as to where you want this to go. depending on how much you smoke, addiction will eventually come. i don't concider that a bad thing though. having smoked for may years i find that part of the habit nice sometimes, and other a pain in the arse,but it is my choice to smoke and i deal with it in the best way i can. i love smoking for the most part and wouldn't change my decision to do so. the best realtionships i've had were with fellow smokers.
as i said early on when you were contimplating starting, honesty is always the best policy. being honest with yourself about the pleasures you have found smoking gives,and weighing them against the negitives that come with it to come to your own decision to continue or not. i know once you have expierenced these positives, its hard to walk away from them, weather you are starting the addiction process or not.
you may well decide that you want to keep smoking. if you do, thats fine, but its time to inform your parents that you have tried it and have liked it so far and would like to continue. i think if you approach it in an adult manner, it may go over better than you would think after the inital shock wears off a bit, so don't worry to much about it. its my understanding that 9 out of 10 people live after telling thier parents they smoke,lol.
think a litte more about it. make an informed decision and do what you need to do to make it happen. i wish you only the very best of luck in what ever you decide.
--Previous Message--
: I almost got caught last
: night by my mom me and
: Megan were walking to
: the store smoking and my
: mom drove by lucky for
: us we had our cigaretts
: down by our sides and
: she could not see
: them.Then she turned
: around and came back to
: talk to us but after she
: went by the first time
: we put them out
: luckly.So i guess we are
: starting to get more
: carless.But I am finding
: it harded to hide it as
: we pretty much smoke
: when were not at
: school.We are smoking in
: front of alot of our
: class mates now like on
: weekends and at
: partys.So its just a
: matter of time before we
: get caught.So i guess
: everyone was right you
: cant just smoke a few
: aday ater awhile you
: want more and more.It
: all started out we were
: going to try it for fun
: but now i think im
: starting to get addicted
: and I dont want to
: be..What to do..
: ...Jenny...
:
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