Posted by dennis on November 3, 2009, 23:55:19, in reply to "smoking"
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the way i look at it is you can't make a bad decision. its all a matter of what you feel is best for you at this time. you could decide to quit peminately. there isn't a thing wrong with that. you may want to qiut for a few months till the games are over and that is fine too. you may just want to keep it a lite habit of a few a day. some folks can do that and not have a problem with it,but most of us really come to love our habit and end up smokin more. but if you can control it, that decision is ok too. you may just say i really like smoking and want to go at it full on, and get to a pack a day. many do just that, and i have no problem with that either.
i know i'm not making it easier for you to make your decision, but i suspect these are the thoughts that have already gone through you mind.there isn't really a bad choice, simply the one that is best for you.
i don't think you are addicted just yet, at least not physically, though it may well be at the starting point. i think its more or less that you have found something you really enjoy,have found it to be stimulating, a social thing with dear friends,pleasant in many aspects...well me too !
what ever you decide, your friends you have made here, and i'm sure your friends at home will respect your choice. just don't beat yourself up over it. its been a grand expierence for you. no matter what happens from here, i hope you will always remember this last while fondly in the future. its been a time of discovering new things about yourself and some of lifes lessons that will serve you well for many years to come.
as always, best wishes !
--Previous Message--
: I think im starting to
: relize that I am
: becomming addicted.Me
: and Megan are starting
: to go out at night for a
: jog or thats what we
: tell our parents.We
: still smoke 2 on the way
: home from pracctice and
: then I eat supper and do
: my homework then I tell
: my parents were going
: jogging and we walk to
: the park near by to
: smoke like 2 or 3
: more,We do end up
: jogging so that I can go
: home sweaty.But I am
: starting to want more
: and more as time goes
: by.Evryone one was right
: it dont take long for
: addiction to start.I
: still have to be
: carefull not to get
: caught and get kicked
: offof the team our coach
: says he really thinks we
: have a chance to make a
: run at state this
: year.last year we onlt
: lost 2 games and
: everyone back,Basketball
: is still very importent
: to me.But i really do
: like smoking to. So
: what to do it is getting
: harder like everyone
: said it would.Should I
: just quit smoking....
:
: ...Jenny...
:
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