| The Wedding was Beautiful!!
Posted by Margaret on 10/28/2009, 2:37 pm 99.4.162.X
Hi, all! Our daughter was married on Saturday, and everything went well....whew! I did not cry during the ceremony or the reception; but let me tell you, I cried today (Tuesday) after realizing: 1) I was going to give my camera to one of the bridesmaids husbands at the reception, but I forgot to give him the camera....grrr! 2) My neighbor offered her husband's amateur photography services to take any poses that I wanted...she asked me to give him a list of of what I wanted taken, but I forgot to give him a list.....grrr! 3) My photographer (my niece, who has just recently started taking wedding photos (this was wedding #7, by the way, arrived the day before with her family...we really did not have time to touch base with her until around 1:00 PM the day of the wedding. The wedding was at 4:00 PM. I meant to give her a list of poses (in addition to what our daughter had asked for) that I would have liked her to take.....but I forget to give her a list.....grrrrr! Fortunately, she told me she took over 1,000 photos. Unfortunately, I will not have any poses that I would have especially liked....like me giving my daughter a 125 year heirloom ring to wear on her wedding day, or pictures with both my daughters in our wedding attire, as we were getting ready in the brides dressing room. Does reading the above three things seem like I sabotaged ALL the work that I have done the last couple of months in preparing for our daughter's wedding? Our did I just forget, in the final stretch, the importance of the camera and my instructions to the photographers? I'm driving myself crazy over this; thank you all for letting me vent about it. I know it will all be fine, but I sometimes wonder about why I screwed up on probably one of the most important details (to me, that is) of the wedding and reception. My reason for coming to the support board today was to order a supply of Cambridge, since I'm back in the saddle again, so to speak. I decided to start SSing with my Cambridge, along with my neighbor buddy, who is doing her own thing (diet and exercise wise). But we will have each other to lean on, and just thinking about her going through the temptations is enough to keep me on the straight and narrow for a week or so at a time. I'm allowing myself one meal out per week. I hope you all don't think I'm nuts, especially since you probably all think I am new to the board. But I very successfully lost about 60 lbs. on Cambridge back September 2003 through May 2004....and felt wonderful! Hopefully, I can take off the 40 that I have gained back! Thanks for reading! Margaret
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