Your sister can hold it in(fear of letting go) and then manifests itself as external control. In comparison, you have to "go", she gets jealous of you going easily when she so desperately wants to but can't. she may put you down for going coz she feels so inferior that she can't go. I can understand that. every one has their own personal truth about such a personal act of going to the loo. i believe it has to do with birth trauma in how we were born into this world.Thus we develop phobias, addictions anxieties etc. rebirthing will help heal these BM phobia's we have.
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