I have finally learned how to be desensitzed through years of therphy and accepting things, I have become a calmer person more layed back. I accepted the fact I can only have control over my self. I had been on medication for years, it has helped but I had to change my way of thinking----------this was not easy. I had a lot of ups and downs. I took alot of things personal. I blammed my self for everything that went wrong-----------------I finally learned that I do not have all that power for everthing to go wrong. I asked my Dr. along time ago how long with it took before I feel better.."He said it did'nt get this way over night and it isn't going away over night. The Dr. was sure right. It took me over 25yrs to learn that. Too some it might sound funny, to me it finally happened-------that is what counts. Thank You