Posted by Eggbound on 8/21/2008, 3:05 pm, in reply to "Re: Is there anyone else out there that has the same problem as me?"
It is because you are focussing so much and thinking about the very thing that you don't want to happen that it does - there's no mystery or coincidence in that.
You would benefit from exploring methods of controlling your thoughts - it is possible and you can train yourself if you are prepared to devote a little time to it. There are many ways to do this - hypnosis, self-hypnosis, meditation, mantra to name but a few.
You can research these topics discreetly online, or buy self-help books if you are too embarrassed to approach anyone personally.
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