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Married and still canít go to the loo if husband home
Posted by Debra on 10/26/2017, 8:17 am
I have been married for 2 yrs and known my husband for 3. Iíve only recently been able to tell him of my problem. At first he would say he would go out and leave me to get on with it but it doesnít work like that. My mind wonít let me go because he will know Iím doing it. Iíve told him it is all in my mind and but I wasnít sure to be honest until I googled yesterday and found there is actually a name for it! I am so relieved Iím not the only one. Iím going to send the link to my husband today whilst heís at work . I hope to get over this one day. We have even just bought a house with a secluded toilet in it just for me. Canít wait to move in it soon. At the moment I take laxatives wed and thurs nights as thur and Friday Iím at home alone. The rest of the week I donít go and my mind says I donít need to when really I do. Itís ruining my life. Holidays are a nightmare. And the wind thatís caused by it can be so uncomfortable especially at dawn when still in bed with my husband. If itís smelly I have to creep out to the spare room. We have not had sex for over a year because of it. Iíve even had a colonoscopy recently ( imagine the embarrassment ) only to find no reason. I hope there is something to ease my twilight years with my lovely patient new husband ( we are 60). Thanks for reading this and good luck to us all xx
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