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Posted by Jack on 12/17/2005, 2:40 am, in reply to "2 YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN"
Three thoughts:
1. He wants to have sex with other women and broke up with you to do so with a clear conscience
2. He wants to make sure that there is nothing better out there before committing to one woman (you) for the rest of his life.
3. He got bored and wanted to walk with the least emotional damage to himself: avoiding a painful breakup by giving you hope that he's coming back when he has no intention of ever doing so except when its convienient or he's horny.
conclusion: However you look at it, its pretty selfish. Ask him what his deal is, he might not even know. If it loooks like all he really wants is fun with his friends, but won't agree to try to make the relationship work, or If he stays away for weeks at a time and only calls when and if he's lonely, move on. Two years is a significant investment, but you shouldn't stay in a relationship just because you've invested time (which is more precious than money) or heart in it. You'd feel better in the long run if you walk. There's more men out there and few will treat you as poorly as he is. If it helps, try to thnk of what you've learned and gained from the experience, not what you've lost. Its tough being single, but hang in there because marraige is worse. ;-p
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