[ Post a Response | Support Buddies ]
The Lifted Hearts Community,
our private community, is awesome...
read all our books for
free when you join!
Posted by Jack on 1/11/2006, 12:18 am, in reply to "Re: I am Jack's breaking heart " I've thought about going to therapy alone, but if I did, I'd have to do it behind her back. She's refused to let me go (its no one else's business-secretly I think she's afraid the therapist will tell me to get a divorce... that's just the impression I get). Our insurance should cover it, but she'd see the bill and flip! I'm here at 12pm checking this support group because this is the only time I can be alone. She doesn't want me talking to ANYONE about this, and would feel betrayed. We talked it out yesterday: I told her I was no longer afraid of divorce and that we needed to do something NOW. She tearfully told me she doesn't want to lose me. That made me feel aweful, but she still won't compromise her stance: when she needs it, I will get her off, but she won't return the favor. I can't live like this! My wife's ob/gyn has the disorder, and takes a pain pill before intercourse, but my wife's pain is as much psychological as anything else, and the pills don't help. I've looked on the web and can't seem to find any useful information: its painful, its permenant, and it can lead to infertility. Txment is by hormone regulation, or surgery. (the surgery didn't work, and the hormone regulation is reducing her symptoms, but not restoring her sex drive.) That's all I could find.
Thank you for your kindness. I AM alone and most human. I agree. There has to be a way. Here's what I've come up with:
Message Thread:
« Back to thread
Responses are not allowed!
Create your own free message board!