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Posted by semaj on 1/15/2006, 8:37 am
please anybody help me understand what my girlfriend is doing.. first off we have been together for 3 years and are recovering from a fight that happened 2 months ago, we have been on egg shells since, but all was improving.. so the other night she gets home before me, im 5 mins away returning home from running at the beach.. she calls and asks where i am, i tell her at home (just down the street) she blows up calling me a lier, that shes been trying to contact me but my phone had been turned off(guess i had no signal) so she took our photoalbum of 3 years of pics removed all of the pages and wrote with a marker on the album face to go to hell liar and left.. i had just missed her when i got home, could smell her scent.. i dont know what she did with the pages from the album.. so i try to call her maybe 20 times.. i was worried bcause our old neighbor left her phone number and new address on apiece of paper and my girl placed it on top of the album, maybe assuming i was cheeting on her.. so i left many voice mails on her phone, making sure she understood that the note was our neighbors and not some random chic.. 2 days later after 15 or so text messages she finially responds to me.. saying shes mad that i lied that i was home and that i turned my cell phone off.. when she cant get intouch with me she always flips out, shes a very jelous person and imagines the worst.. so its been 4 days now, shes staying at her parents house which is 20 mins or so away.. when i tried to call her at work she hangs up the phone as soon as she realizes its me... wont respond to my voicemails and will only respond to text messages to correct me on why shes upset with me is i start apologizing about somthing that isnt exactly what shes mad about... so how do i win this game? well not that i want to win, but i want it to end, it has caused so much emotional damage, i cant eat or sleep, and she seems to have no problem going on with her life.. she seemed happy in our relationship, it was just the day before this silly fight that she reminded me how much she hopes our kid/s give my eyes.. so i dont think shes been waiting to leave me or anything... please help! -james
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