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Posted by Jack on 1/26/2006, 5:34 pm, in reply to "........this is really long but i need to get it out and i need some advice" As an aside, here are a few notes to go by in future relationships:
Take it from a guy. Move on. Throw the Bastard's stuff away and move on. He doesn't love you. you can't hurt someone that you love like that. You're young and afraid to be alone, but you have a whole lot of things going for you and he's not one of them. This advice might be coming late, but if you don't move on, or if you take him back, ultimately, he'll kill you. Either directly or by murdering your soul.
If a guy cheats on you: Drop him immediately. If he does it once, he'll do it again. Don't let it be on you.
If a guy punches you, drop him as soon as you can. Go to the police and get a restraining order. Then go to Glock and get a 9mm and learn to use in. I recommend the 19 or 26. the latter will even fit in your purse! Though you'd need a concealed carry permit. :-) The FN Five.Seven is nice, easier to shoot and more accurate, but its twice as expensive and the ammo costs more.
If a guy threatens suicide, wait 'til later and call the police. If they don't take you seriously, contact a hospital or mental health professional. In most states, you can have someone committed for making suicidal gestures or threats. Once he's safely in a padded cell, move on. If he does kill himself (which I doubt, he's just being manipulative-throwing a tantrum like a little girl) then you've done all you can.
I'm so sorry something like this has happened to you. I wish there was something I can do. I'd kick your ex's ass for you, but I live in MS.
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