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Posted by Jack on 4/3/2006, 10:51 pm, in reply to "Message to Jack" By way of an update things sort of spontaneously straightened themselves out...sort of. I went to a marriage councelor, my wife wouldn't come with me. I decided we would divorce in August if things didn't improve, and my wife started changing to keep me. We didn't actually resolve anything, so I'm a little suspicious that it will last, but she's made a complete change in behavior, and I've started up a few hobbies. Right now things are looking up, but only time will show if the change is genuine, or if she's just faking. Also, She's been (mostly) better for three months now. I think by the time I posted here originally, it was mostly psychological. It hurt so many times, she'd expect it to hurt, so it would. Endo doesn't go away, but hers is controlled by surgery and medications. A lot has happened, if you're interested, I have a running thread on the website, Divorcesource.com. I've included a link if you want to check it out. Also, its a good resource if you're looking for a place to talk with people in similar situations. http://www.divorcesource.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=0&Number=72250&an=0&page=0#72250 I think in general, the folks who come to this room are younger, or at least less experienced, than myself. So I keep coming to offer advice when I can. Behavioral neuroscience is hard stuff. I'm a graduate psyc student myself, and have taken a few physiological psyc courses. They are my least favorite because they are so difficult.
Thanks, Eric. I am there buddy. I feel like walking away from my wife while she's sick is a cruel thing to do. Marriage isn't the same as dating, and that permanence is what's keeping me in the relationship. If my wife were just my girlfriend, I'd have been gone before she even realized she was sick.
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