[ Post a Response | Support Buddies ]
The Lifted Hearts Community,
our private community, is awesome...
read all our books for
free when you join!
Posted by Jack on 4/5/2006, 9:43 pm, in reply to "Shed some light PLEASE!!!!! :):)" 1. Your friends are likely to be with you long after this clown is gone. Don't lose track of them. What's more important to you, Your friends, or your boy? It seems like he's trying to force a decision. Only you know what's right for you (actually, ask your mom for advice, she probably knows you better than you know yourself, or at the least is biased towards YOUR best interest, not preserving some unhealthy relationship). 2. Dump him. You'll get over him. Trust me. There are plenty of guys out there who would treat you better, and its not worth dealing with. Imagine how you'll feel if you stick it out for ten more years...DO you think you'd still love him? If so, you are a more patient person than myself. You mentioned having other relationships before him. Were you ever in love before? If so, then that proves you can fall in love with someone who isn't a jerk. If not, then you just need to meet more people. 3. Its easy to fall in love, its finding someone who you can spend the rest of your life with without have to deal with their baggage/controlling needs that's the real b###h. 4. If you think he'll get violent, talk to your friends about getting support via a restraining order, a place to stay, a big guy with muscles, or your father with a gun. Which of those options you need would depend on his level of violence/jealousy. Hope this helps, Justin PS: I'm feeling unusaully cocky tonight, so again, you might not want to take me TOO seriously.
Without a lot to go on, I can only offer you a little advice (don't take me too seriously):
Message Thread:
« Back to thread
(Responses are not allowed)
Create your own free message board!