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Posted by Jack on 4/26/2006, 4:16 pm, in reply to "Re: advice please?" Going on vacation without you? Where was he going? Have you seen Brokeback Mountain? or is this more of a spring break type of vacation? Either way, I'd want no part of what he brought home. Its tough to walk away from a relationship you didn't expect to have to walk away from, but sometimes we have to hurt a little so we don't hurt for longer. Think about the American Revolution. Things were bad BEFORE the boston tea party, but they got a lot worse befor ethey got better. Think of the Emancipation Proclaimation. Black slaves gained their freedom, but how many Americans (black and white) had to die and suffer loss to ensure that freedom. Look at the war in Iraq. We are failing precisely because we are not willing to make things worse to make them better. On an everyday level, think about pulling off a band-aid. short-term saddness and pain is better than long-term. What if you DO get back with this guy and had a kid with him, then he decides to go on another walk-about and you never see him again. My advice is not to put yourself in that situation. But you didn't ask my advice, you asked if he could be over you. The answer is a resounding maybe. However, someone doesn't have to be over someone to break up with them. I'm still not over my ex who cheated on me, and its been 4 years. While the relationship may have been going fine for you, he might not have felt the same way. He may have been over you for some time, but not wanted to leave for whatever reason. Maybe something pushed him over the edge, or maybe he got up the nerve to actually leave. Either way, your calling him was likely an annoyance. Do you really want someone like that? Then again, I'm making a lot of assumptions. My advice is not to believe a word of this, but to make up your own mind about what to do.
Muffincake,
I think the question you should be asking is "Do I want him back after the way he treated me?"
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