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Posted by Jack on 6/3/2006, 11:48 pm, in reply to "long distance relationship done after 3 years or i think it is" 1) If you caught him red handed (the myspace thing was pretty obvious) and instead of making it right, he covers his tracks (making it right=changing "single" to "in a relationship" and limiting his interactions with single females. Covering his tracks=canceling his account and going back on with an alias or a new account), then you are a sucker if you think he's innocent. I don't think you are not a sucker, you want to be sure you aren't imagining things. That is wise. 2) A very, very manipulative man (my grandfather) once told me that a woman will take any amount of shit from a guy who she "thinks" is in love with her. It made my gut turn at 12, but the older I get the more I realize this is true. Kim (do you mind if I call you Kim?), If someone loves you, then they respect you enough not to try to sneak around behind your back. If they love you, they don't hang out with your best friend only when you aren't around. In other words, they don't put themselves in a position where they will be tempted to compromise the relationship that they claim to love. If you don't have respect, then its not worth your love. Just my opinion, but this guy seems pretty guilty to me. Unless you feel like you could never meet someone like him again you'd be better off seeing other people. It looks like he already is, whether or not he's ####ing them.
He's probably "doing" exactly who and what you think he's doing.
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