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Posted by Jack on 6/4/2006, 12:07 am, in reply to "don't know what to do" Something happens at work and I catch hell because of her, and she texts me to apologize: That was considerate of her. I text her back telling her how hot she is: Ok, that's more than a little suspicious. I call her to apologize and tell her I only think of her as a friend and that my heart belongs to Kristen with whom I am involved and I'm so into describing Kristen's many, many wonderful attributes that I don't her her calling: Not very likely, but ok. A friend of mine's a farmer. He has a saying: "If you find one rat in your hay then there's likely fifty of them." In your case, you've twice caught this guy flirting with girls via text messages. How many times have you not caught him? You saw what you saw and nothing is going to change that. When you confront him, he'll either make up excuses (I thought the one's I gave were pretty ####ing sweet!) or apologize. Think! Things on text messages are very deliberate. He had to type out each letter of each word, edit the message, and then send it. That was three chances you already gave him to do the right thing and just not send it. If you don't leave him you are going to ruin him for the rest of his life. If he learns that he can play and not pay, then he'll never quit. If its just "harmless" flirting, then that's a different matter, but you seem to think it is more serious. If she apologized for "what happened" and he told her how hot she is, then clearly he's not too remorseful. If he were my girlfriend/wife that alone would be a deal-breaker.
A female coworker tells me I'm cute: I'd be flattered.
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