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Posted by Jack on 7/5/2006, 8:22 pm, in reply to "Jack's Life" A lot of what I know I know from second-hand cases, such as from the girls I hung out with, or from school (I'm a psychology grad student). Also, my personality and ethical code, the two things which I use most in forming my advice are things that are unique to me and were earned through a combination of personal introspection, unique experience, and genetic inheritance, and thus aren't anything I can explicitly explain. I suppose if I had any general advice it would be 1) to treat others better than you would want to be treated yourself 2) to listen to your opposite sex friends and after careful thought, follow their advice when appropriate 3) One can overcome anxiety and shyness by forcing oneself to talk to the opposite sex. It takes time and lots of practice to develop a game for dating and relating...I know "Hitch" is a ficticious movie, but Will Smith's character was the absolute pinnacle of game dating in my opinion. I was nowhere near that level, but I was sufficient enough for my needs. One big difference between his game and mine is what we were after. I was only 23 when I met my wife and officially went off the market for the last time, I didn't have casual sex with the girls I dated even if they wanted to. That goes back to my personal morals, and if you have a little sister, you may understand. I think in the movie it was appropriate because of the age and maturity of the characters involved, but nothing gets me madder than a guy who sleeps with young girls just because he can. A player should never use his power to hurt others, I think that was one of the points of the film. That's all I can say about that.
I'm not sure if this is the kind of reply that you were expecting...but it was a few of my memorable stories.
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