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Posted by Jack on 9/18/2006, 3:21 pm, in reply to "Should I move out so he'll believe me?" Wanna know what I think? He's clever? So what? a lot of people are clever and it doesn't mean a thing. There are lots of clever men who didn't go to the top schools and some of which who would be interested in taking you out to dinner. Is he good looking? So what? Who ever you marry, in twenty years you're still going to be tired of seeing his face every morning, or you will grow more fond of it.
Have you heard of an obsession? For you, Ian/skye is an obsession. I can't offer you advice for dealing with this obsession, because I have my own obsessions to deal with. However, I can say that it is impossible for this boy to deserve the attention you are giving to him. If going to Wales to get your life in order will help you to forget about him and accomplish something, then that is what you should do. However, running away from him will not solve your problem. This boy is so built up (you've made him the perfect guy for you by your obsessions) that to you, he is perfect when in fact he might not be perfect for you, which is the important thing. The only way to tell the latter is by talking with the poor bastard and figuring out what he wants and likes. How he takes his coffee (or tea I suppose, since you're english), who his favorite football team is, or whether he prefers the Beatles to the Rolling Stones or vise versa.
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