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Posted by Jack on 10/7/2006, 12:46 pm, in reply to "Jealousy?" If not, then perhaps you can put the ball back in his court by pointing out some guy you think is hot. I'd be interested in kowing how he takes his own medicine. If he gets annoyed, or defensive, then he is probably pointing out girls as an act of aggression. If he is cool with it, then he is just being honest with you. A guy who can tell his fiance or girlfriend if he finds another girl attractive, is the guy who will run like hell if said girl trys to put a move on him. He knows the danger. If A guy thinks that because he is in a relationship, he is somehow immune from being seduced by anyone but his partner, he is going to find it hard to say, "no" when he is faced with the choice. Further, those are the guys who assume that because they find this new girl attractive, they must love her more than the girl they are with. Then their are the guys who know they find another girl attractive, but don't want you to know, because they are afraid of the consequences, or because they don't want you to be suspicious...thes guys cheat...not all of them, but they are on their way. In conclusion, figure out why he is doing it, and that will help out a lot. With whether or not you should worry about it. It may be that he isn't aware that it hurts you, and would stop if you show him how it feels.
It sounds like you aren't so much threatened by these girls, as just don't want to hear about it. That makes since. I don't think he is doing it to send the message that you are expendable, or pointing them out and comparing them to you, is he?
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